Originally Posted by
tcook052
The irony is the reaction is far worse than the action.
That's a hazard we all need to consider, especially if the problem is likely to continue.
I encountered an extreme example two days ago in real life. At a store an obviously mentally ill customer was berating the check-out clerk incomprehensibly. The clerk said nothing in response, finally handing the customer the receipt saying "Have a nice day". The customer left, muttering more complaints nobody could understand.
Had the clerk engaged in any debate the argument would probably have escalated, possibly requiring summoning the police. This way the situation ended as well as it could have. It was unpleasant for the clerk and for other customers like me, but it did not become dangerous.
The point is that sometimes quietly tolerating a tense situation is actually the best you can do.