I tried that once Eastwest and all I can say is the Man with the rubber glove was surprisingly gentle....

That part that hurts the most is, when the inspection was over, he never called, he never wrote, not even flowers on Valentines Day. I gave him the best 20 mins of my life... Men are such pigs...

But seriously, why not consent? If it is that she improperly phrased the question, she quickly corrected herself when you refused. What’s to argue about, it only makes you look more suspicious and make them more adamant that they are going to search you. Maybe search you very thoroughly…