Nope.
I tell the wait staff exactly what I want and I'm not really interesting in their opinion - there's a reason why they're on minimum wage and I'm paying for the meal.
Never let the tail wag the dog and that goes for the most supercilious maitre d down to the guy checking my coat and hat.
Now,there's no need to be rude or obnoxious about it but I like to let them know from the outset - and I particularly let them know when they try to pour my own wine for me.I'll fill my own glass when I'm ready,if you don't mind.