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Unfortunately as you have separate tickets, you are at the mercy of the check-in agents at your originating port (I assume CGK). Whilst it is technically possible for the baggage to be sent through, as it is not on the same ticket, they are not obligated to do so.
It is also not possible for someone to pick up the bags and then check them in for you at DXB without you being present - that would require a visa.