It sounds like the OP would benefit from an outstanding concierge in a luxury hotel.

For me, I enjoy the iconic historic buildings, whether it's a city palace or a countryside castle. I sometimes thing of the place as my private museum that's open 24/7, sometimes with good people watching too. Depending on the location, a luxury hotel can be a reliable way to get an acceptable hotel that's unique and interesting versus the alternative of a cookie-cutter western chain hotel.