Fathers would rarely ask this question and a father would not get these responses.
CWYNJ, what is the situation at home? Is your husband at home caring for the kids when you're away? Your mom?
Are you a single mother and that additional money goes to the basic support and education of your children? If you have the childcare, in this case, I guess you'd have to consider the job.
Whether a father or mother, this has got to be hard on the kids I would think. I guess just take that into the equation when deciding.
Much luck that everything works out for your family!