Originally Posted by
chollie

The person in row 2 who stops, sets his personal item on the seat, puts his bag in the overhead, takes his coat off, folds it neatly, puts it in the overhead, opens his personal bag and takes out headset, paper, etc. ...then finally steps out of the aisle and into his seat - all done at a leisurely pace. Turns out to be my seatmate, has the nerve to comment later on the golden days of flying when 'people weren't in such a rush all the time, life was conducted at a more civilized pace'. Um, yeah, the aisles were wider and the hips were narrower back in those good old days...
Pro-active FAs definitely help here - tactful ways of saying 'please step out of the aisle - yes, Mr./Ms. DYKWIA, this also means you'.
Doesn't stop me...I'll just say to the aisle lice "Excuse me...." and he/she will nearly always step into their row. Exception if the delay is caused by the person being unable to lift the bag - then I'll help, of course.