a long time ago hubby went to Paris and scolded by a rude Parisian because hubby did not speak french
since then he swore he was never going back to Paris
well, before he knew it, he had been back to Paris thrice

because each time i had kept a secret until the last minute (like, already at the airport)
now he does not mind anymore because the Parisians have become friendlier, could also because i speak french a little fluenter
one more secret, for every trip hubby never knows what he will be wearing until he gets there!