Who says that people can't distinguish? Is it so difficult to understand that perhaps some people don't see it as such a big deal.
I originally posted a long time that you can learn just as much from someone who does it wrong and even maybe more than someone who does it right.
So what has this now become the battle for our hearts and minds. The implication that I see here is that if we don't choose a side than we are wrong
Now when I write I generally refer to what are my life experiences to base it upon. I'm sure that everyone here has different life experiences. But here goes.
My hobby is soccer referring and I am doing a game of boys 15 to 17 years old. (This incident happens generally only in a game of boys 15 to 17 years old) Suddenly I notice two opponents who poking their chests into each other. (rooster fighting is what we call it) Now a game that had been enjoyable for the spectators and players is quickly about to become not. So I intervene. I get the two players aside and tell them to take it out to the parking lot and come back and tell me who won. They invariably tell me that they really weren't fighting.
And guess what? We are back to an enjoyable experience for the players and spectators.
Now I really don't care where you decide to take your disagreement to get it done. Do it in some private chat room or do it New York. But do it somewhere else so that the participants and spectators can have an enjoyable experience here on the boards.