Thanks so far, everyone!

I don't even need/want a room with toys and entertainment. The Family Room at the EWR CO lounge is, well, just a room. LOL
It has a TV and a child-size table, but that's it.

We can supply the entertainment. My biggest desire is just to have somewhere quiet and separate. We don't want to disturb others, but being out in the general terminal for hours on end with 2 little ones who need naps during a long layover is hell on wheels.

Last time my son napped and watched DVDs in the family room in the lounge, and my H and I enjoyed a couple of drinks and WiFi/newspapers during our 5 hour layover. It was a dream come true as far as dealing with a layover with a little one. My daughter wasn't even a twinkle in our eyes as that time, so I can only imagine how much of a lifesaver it will be with TWO kids.

I originally got onto this topic because I was thinking about our nezt trip to TLV to visit the family. We like Continental nonstop from EWR, and our lounge experience was fantastic. However, the Continental flights seat 3-3-3, so with a family of 4, that means we either split up 3-1 or 2-2. I was looking into which airlines fly with 4 across in the middle, and that got me to wondering about the option for lounge facilities en route and which is a bigger priority: a good lounge/nap to hopefully help keep the kids from melting down in flight or better seating with the family all together.