Originally Posted by
princessyoga
as a good parent I can manage her.

Really? I mean you are basically saying that every single misbehaving child is the parent's fault? That's just not the case. Some kids are difficult no matter what.
To you main point -- I have no problem with kids in the PC as long as they are not making noise. The family room is a wonderful thing; when i travel with my niece and nephew we use the family room.
But if the kids are making noise and the parent cannot get them under control, then the family should be asked to leave. Noisy children get taken out of movie theaters and church and they should be taken out of the PC if they are disruptive. Even if your children are much better than most children because you are the perfect mother.