Originally Posted by
windwalker
So how long should my wedding toast be?
and would it be wrong(or too much of a downer) to raise glasses, mention or a quite moment for those whom meant a lot to daughter but have passed(grandfather\uncle\great-uncle)
That's not only appropriate, but it's something and someone to which many (almost half, likely
) of the guests can relate. As father of the bride (?), though, don't forget to welcome the in-laws. And end with a loving joke. It'll be remembered.