...that I would not get my luggage on my outgoing or retuning flight? Seriously I thought I was flying US.

EWR-LAX-FAT: 45 minute layover and it didn't make it
FAT-SFO-EWR: 1 Hour layover and it didn't make it

Both hubs being united and the FAT legs were on UA. Isn't a legal connection 35 minutes which should suggest there was enough time for them to transfer?

I requested compensation for my parking($1) at FAT since i needed my stuff for a meeting. It is not about the money but the principle and the inconvenience of going back to the airport at 4AM.