Thanks for the excellent info, ksandness. I've been to at least one Buddhist temple with the family, so I expect it will be a Buddhist service. My colleagues and I haven't heard anything more so we're just waiting for information when they're ready to give it to us. Showing up for the funeral without an invite didn't strike us as being a good idea. We'll offer them whatever support we can and recognize that their mourning takes precedence over business for the time being.