Ditto and me too. (although I prefer Kauai)
Red-eye, I always go for the window so I can lean and nap. (unless I am on a seat that lays waaaaay back, then I don't care so much)
If I will be awake, the aisle. Don't get trapped in that way, and can get up as needed. But check out seatguru for your particular flight, and avoid middle seats at all costs.
When traveling with Mr. P1, we usually take window/aisle. If the flight isn't packed, no one will take the middle seat. :~)