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Old Nov 25, 2010, 3:47 pm
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Originally Posted by polonius
Whilst I am deeply sympathetic to the OP, I have to side with those who ask why she allowed this to happen. Why ASK a TSO for "permission" to use the toilet? They don't have any authority about this! If you need a break, take it!
Indeed, there is no need to ask for permission to urinate in a lavatory. The little Napoleons in the TSA are free to call for LEOs to try to stop that, but they usually have no power to arrest/detain like a LEO.

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Old Nov 25, 2010, 4:06 pm
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Originally Posted by exbayern
Have you ever been in physical pain? Real pain, so bad that you feel physically ill, as if you are going to fall over? Pain so bad that you can barely control your body and every thought is just on making it to relative 'safety'?
That's a great point. It doesn't even have to be physical pain. Recently I experienced severe dizziness and nausea related to some medication I was taking. I couldn't stand, walk or drive, and I couldn't eat for 5 days. It was a few days before I could get in to see my doctor and take care of it. If I had to travel during that period, I would have done whatever it took to get through security. If TSA told me to stand on my head, I would have done it (right before vomiting all over them). I'm normally a very outspoken person, with complete disrespect for authority. I would have found it impossible to resist anything they did to me in the state I was in.

BTW, my experience has made me extremely sympathetic to anyone who has to live with constant pain on a daily basis. As bad as my experience was, it was nothing compared to what other people have to go through.

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Old Nov 25, 2010, 5:13 pm
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Originally Posted by polonius
Whilst I am deeply sympathetic to the OP, I have to side with those who ask why she allowed this to happen. Why ASK a TSO for "permission" to use the toilet? They don't have any authority about this! If you need a break, take it!
I've been following this this thread and happy to see that our story has inspired so much conversation...until I saw this post, and now I'm upset. I'm sorry but how dare you judge us? My mother begged repeatedly to use the bathroom and they wouldn't let her. They physically walked her over to the roped off area...what was she supposed to do? Make a break for it? She walks with a cane! There was a male agent blocking me from going to her and every time I'd try to go over there he'd get in my face and stop me. I'm not a large woman...what do you suggest I should have done? If I'd have made a stink they would have thrown my ... in jail! Keep in mind this was a year ago before all this attention...we would have been viewed as troublemakers. Do you think a single person wold have come to our defense? Maybe today. ..but not last year.

Talk about our story, share it and get angry, but don't you dare criticize us. You weren't there.

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Old Nov 25, 2010, 5:22 pm
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Originally Posted by exbayern
I'm sorry but I don't equate your experience to anything near like LeeAnne's mother's experience. I've been screamed at by a SAT TSO to remove my only item of clothing on my upper body (a light weight top) and to walk through without it, and certainly spoke up for myself. That resulted in being pulled for a secondary screening (at which time the puzzled female TSO told me that her male colleagues at SAT were idiots and let me proceed after a very cursory pat down)

But I would not equate that to what happened here.
I was not "equating" experiences. I was merely pointing out how TSA employees get away with abusive behavior.
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Old Nov 25, 2010, 5:24 pm
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Originally Posted by TheGolfWidow
I suspect most people just assume the screeners are some level of Federal law enforcement. They are, after all, wearing a badge, sporting what looks very much like a police uniform, performing duties that relate to our nation's security and making no effort whatsoever to do anything to dissuade one from thinking they are very much in authority. And, even for those who do know better, there is still the problem that asking a question or making a fuss or pointing out a medical disability leaves one vulnerable to interacting with an actual law enforcement officer who is a colleague to the same screener that got put out by the question or the fuss or the attempt to give information.

One is also separated from his/her possessions, so there is no ability to contact outside law enforcement or to summon an advocate of any sort. It is a very, very vulnerable situation, and even those who know the screeners are "officers" of Nothing At All are still not likely to be comfortable escalating. Nearly every passenger is under some sort of duress, even if it's nothing more than a flight to catch. There is no one advocating for the passenger at the checkpoint but the passenger himself, and that is a very uncomfortable situation for a lot of people, even if one doesn't have a diaper, a stoma or an artificial hip.

I totally, totally get the unwillingness to react in the moment when these atrocities occur.
We all need to take a lesson from the woman in this video:

http://www.eurthisnthat.com/2010/11/...o-wrong-woman/

She was interviewed on the local news tonight - I didn't get her name and so far I can't find it. She basically said that you have to take the shame that has been perpetrated on you and immediately turn it around and give it back to the perp.

I'd love if we could contact her and get a few tips on how to do this with TSO's.
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Old Nov 25, 2010, 5:29 pm
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Then she ran her gloved fingers all along the inside of her diaper, while my mother stood there holding her shirt up, for all the other passengers to see her 73-year-old bare midriff. At this point she regretted not asking for a private room, but it was too late – it was almost over. (Plus I'd told her NOT to ask for a private room, because I didn't want my mother being molested where she couldn't be seen.)
Perhaps you should take half the blame for telling her not to use a private room


And yes I do care. My best friend died on 9/11 and I miss her more every day!

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Apparently airline bookings were down today. I have to think that nobody, upon reading multiple stories like this, would want to put themselves or loved ones through this hell.

It'll be interesting to watch it dawn on the mainstream media that people are beginning to boycott airports.
Or perhaps people did not want to be harassed by those refusing the xray. At least that is what the papers said

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Old Nov 25, 2010, 5:38 pm
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Originally Posted by Pyswarrior
Or perhaps people did not want to be harassed by those refusing the xray. At least that is what the papers said
Yup, because we can ALWAYS believe everything the papers say...
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Old Nov 25, 2010, 5:45 pm
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She had her doctor's notes for both of her medical conditions, but naturally she set off the metal detector, so she was moved over to a roped-off area out in full view of the public. When they walked her over, she begged them to allow her to use the restroom before the pat-down. They refused. She waited there for over 10 minutes before a very large, very scary-looking TSA agent - who looked like she'd spent the first half of her life running with the crips and the second half as a prison guard - came over to pat her down. My mother asked AGAIN if she could use the restroom. The agent refused, and began her molestation. She wanded her entire body, including between her legs, then began the physical rubbing. She ran her hands up my mother's legs, and when she got to her crotch area, she discovered that my mother was slightly damp there. She yanked her hand out and started SCREAMING at her, "DID YOU PISS ON ME? DID YOU PISS ON ME?" My mother started crying, calling out my name in distress.
I'm really sorry for your mother. But what if had been a "bad guy" who had gone to the bathroom, removed her gun and hidden it in the bathroom (or given it to a colleague) and then gone back to the pat down.

You know the agent did the right thing in searching first! But she was totally wrong in her comments. Yet, from what I have been reading, there are people on this board who would have peed on her
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Old Nov 25, 2010, 5:50 pm
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I agree that this is pretty horrid, but raise a couple of questions.

Should anyone who says "I am in pain/had recent surgery" be exempt from security procedures?

Should the elderly be similarly exempt? If so, what is the definition of "elderly"? Is it based on actual age or physical appearance?

The trouble is, if you start to give people different treatment based on subjective criteria (as interpreted by your average TSA officer), you will hear the cry "discrimination" in a heartbeat. It seems that you have to treat everyone equally......badly.

Incidentally, I saw a TSA goon checking a family this week in GSO. He checked all the boarding cards and IDs. Then he said to the child (about 5-7 years old I guess) - "What is your name" (fair enough), then "Do you know where you are traveling". I am assuming that this was some sort of well-intentioned child protection/anti-abduction effort but it upset the kiddie and her parents. Is is part of the TSA's mission of just another individual initiative from the power crazy?
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Old Nov 25, 2010, 5:51 pm
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Originally Posted by Pyswarrior
I'm really sorry for your mother. But what if had been a "bad guy" who had gone to the bathroom, removed her gun and hidden it in the bathroom (or given it to a colleague) and then gone back to the pat down.

You know the agent did the right thing in searching first! But she was totally wrong in her comments. Yet, from what I have been reading, there are people on this board who would have peed on her
If the TSA employee had been the least bit cognizant of the passenger's situation, she should have escorted the passenger out of the security checkpoint to the landside portion of the terminal and allowed her to use the bathroom. The TSA employee maliciously escalated the situation, with precious little regard for her TSA Core Value of Integrity:
Originally Posted by TSA: Mission, Vision, and Core Values
  • Integrity:
    • We are a people of integrity who respect and care for others and protect the information we handle.
    • We are a people who conduct ourselves in an honest, trustworthy and ethical manner at all times.
    • We are a people who gain strength from the diversity in our cultures.
(underlining mine)
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Old Nov 25, 2010, 5:54 pm
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Squeeler and Devildog

Excellent posts
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Old Nov 25, 2010, 6:11 pm
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Originally Posted by LeeAnne
Talk about our story, share it and get angry, but don't you dare criticize us. You weren't there.
Agreed. I am appalled at the number of people who've taken advantage of this thread to launch personal attacks at both LeeAnne and her mother! Yes, I realize that once someone posts something on a public forum, they're fair game, but give it a rest already!

For those of you who think you're clever enough or assertive enough to have found a way around the male TSO who blocked LeeAnne's attempts to assist her mother, please share that here. It's all well and good to say that a TSO has no lawful right to detain you, but when one is surrounded by a cordon of TSOs and the only way to break free is to push past them, what's the answer? As soon as the passenger raises a hand to the TSOs, it's the passenger who's going to get arrested for assault. So, if you have a better idea, please share with the rest of us.

Also, if LeeAnne's mother is going to be flying out of Burbank this coming Monday, are there any experienced FTers who might be willing to be on site to assist her if she needs it? I'm actually thinking that if a small group of FTers (and friends) were willing to show up at the same checkpoint at the same time and just create a distraction, that might be enough to keep the TSOs from bothering with LeeAnne's mother. Yes, I realize this is asking a lot, but we all know that unless there's something more interesting to get the TSOs' attention, then LeeAnne's mother will, once again, be fair game.
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Old Nov 25, 2010, 6:11 pm
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Originally Posted by Pyswarrior
I'm really sorry for your mother. But what if had been a "bad guy" who had gone to the bathroom, removed her gun and hidden it in the bathroom (or given it to a colleague) and then gone back to the pat down.

You know the agent did the right thing in searching first! But she was totally wrong in her comments. Yet, from what I have been reading, there are people on this board who would have peed on her
Okay, I'll play. What if? What is the probability that a 73-year-old woman flying with her daughter is a "bad guy" concealing a gun and covers for it by claiming an artificial knee set off the metal detector? I'm willing to accept that it's more than 0%; are you willing to admit that it's very very low?

TSA clerks and other airline employees get into the so-called "sterile" area with little or no scrutiny. So what is the probability that one of the 61000 TSA clerks, or one of the 100s of thousands of unscreened airport employees could decide (or be bribed, or threatened, or fooled) to take a weapon airside and hand it off to someone? (Hint: it's already happened at least once.)

Why is TSA unwilling to live with the first risk, but willing to live with the second? It's simply because it's easy to insist on searching passengers, but unpalatable to be so stringent with its own employees and airport staff.

Finally, it is inhuman to expect people to stand in line for 90 minutes or longer without having a bathroom break. Of course many people can manage, but there are some who cannot. There needs to be some arrangement made for simple human physical needs.
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Old Nov 25, 2010, 6:17 pm
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Finally, it is inhuman to expect people to stand in line for 90 minutes or longer without having a bathroom break . . . There needs to be some arrangement made for simple human physical needs.
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Old Nov 25, 2010, 6:17 pm
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Originally Posted by squeeler
Should anyone who says "I am in pain/had recent surgery" be exempt from security procedures?
I don't think that anyone has suggested that here. But there are numerous reports and first hand accounts of TSOs seeming to take the feedback about sensitive areas and being particularly rough on those areas.

What happened to compassion and respect? DevilDog posted the TSA Core Values, which obviously are not followed, but how did those people lose their concern for others? Why are we defending their actions?
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