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Originally Posted by WChou
(Post 21636350)
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For the next hour her colorful language covered the entire Pantone spectrum. ... |
Originally Posted by WChou
(Post 21636350)
The next day, I went to my boss's office and told him I would never fly WN ever again.
Granted, I am not casual WN flyer - all WN flights I and my wife took together was SFO-RNO and can't complain about audience onboard. |
No, I don't find this rude. In fact I find this normal. When I travel with 3-4 other people we all pick the aisles. So we could end up with like 2-3 rows of aisle seats.
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Related question:
What if it's a small plane with only 3 seats across, A to the left of the aisle and BC to the right? Are couples expected to take BC, or is it appropriate for them to take AB? |
Originally Posted by cbn42
(Post 21641378)
Related question:
What if it's a small plane with only 3 seats across, A to the left of the aisle and BC to the right? Are couples expected to take BC, or is it appropriate for them to take AB? |
If it is 3-3 we always choose C&D if it 1-2 we choose A&A first and A&B secondly. We choose our seats earlier & check-in early. Everyone has the otion to pick aisle seats. Just because we are a couple why should one of us be uncomfortable?
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Everyone does not have the option to pick aisle seats, as the entire plane is not made up of aisle seats. They are in finite supply - that's kind of the point.
Because you would be less uncomfortable getting up close and personal to your significant other than you would getting up close and personal to a stranger. Sitting aisle/aisle increases the amount of sharing you have to do with strangers. |
Originally Posted by cbn42
(Post 21641378)
Related question:
What if it's a small plane with only 3 seats across, A to the left of the aisle and BC to the right? Are couples expected to take BC, or is it appropriate for them to take AB? I don't think there is an issue with other passengers. Other passengers don't know the couple is married, and even if they do, how do other passengers know those seats were the only one available, and the couple had no choice but to take them.. or any other unforeseeable circumstances? |
Originally Posted by kop84
(Post 21627972)
I have noticed a trend on a lot of flights now that people traveling together are sitting aisles across. Am I the only person who finds this rude or am I out of line?
Why would it be rude? We each pay for our own seat and prefer aisles. |
Originally Posted by Ancien Maestro
(Post 21637884)
Anyone a party of 4 choosing 3-3, 3-3 row after row?
When my spouse and I travel with the two rugrats, we do the row-after-row thing. It makes much more sense because one adult is with one rugrat. Also, the adult can usurp a little of the child's leg space and be more comfortable. Thirdly, it makes one parent not have to be the one mostly in charge of both kids while the other sits across the aisle or elsewhere. Even sections of stink, to be honest. If a family of 4 takes the 4 section with the parents as bookends, you can't communicate and pass things back and forth as well as you can when you're one behind the other. Back to the original question: No it's not rude for a couple to sit aisle-aisle. Just because they planned their seating before you doesn't make it rude. Different people have all kids of differing preferences, and someone acting on those preferences by reserving seats accordingly doesn't make them rude. |
Originally Posted by cbn42
(Post 21641378)
Related question:
What if it's a small plane with only 3 seats across, A to the left of the aisle and BC to the right? Are couples expected to take BC, or is it appropriate for them to take AB? |
It's only rude if the couple talks loudly across the aisle.
Which seems to happen a lot. |
Originally Posted by ND76
(Post 21630032)
shortly before the door closed an older couple got on; the man had the aisle opposite me, and the woman had a seat in row 5--they didn't appear to be frequent flyers, and the woman was about to fall to pieces when she figured out she was going to be separated from him.
"He's not my husband," she informed me, "He's my boyfriend, and we already have enough time together on this trip. You stay put." Years ago, it still cracks me up
Originally Posted by Crazyhotelguy
(Post 21630627)
Maybe it is a child and parent. Maybe it is a honeymoon couple, maybe its Al and Peg Bundy.... Really it does not matter. Their are proper channels and methods to follow. Ask the GA, FA, whomever.
The nice man in 11E was exceptionally happy to take an aisle seat, but my daughter was exceptionally anxious waiting in her own seat until he boarded.
Originally Posted by goalie
(Post 21631421)
*and with flights being as full as they are, the odds of booking an aisle seat & a window seat with the hopes of the middle seat staying empty are very slim
Originally Posted by WChou
(Post 21636350)
I offered to trade seats but the FAs told me they wanted to keep the pair separated. For the next hour her colorful language covered the entire Pantone spectrum. She was a living, breathing Urban Dictionary.
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My wife and I both like aisle seats so if available we will book cross aisle. Until this thread I'd never considered it might offend someone. Having given the matter the consideration it deserves (not much) I've concluded that I don't give a damn if it does.
What I have learned in my comparatively brief time on this site is that the most insignificant matters will raise someone's hackles. Attempting to avoid every tiny transgression listed on FT would be impossible and actually not worth the bother. |
Originally Posted by vicarious_MR'er
(Post 21642458)
3-3 configs are the worst for parties of 4!
When my spouse and I travel with the two rugrats, we do the row-after-row thing. It makes much more sense because one adult is with one rugrat. Also, the adult can usurp a little of the child's leg space and be more comfortable. Thirdly, it makes one parent not have to be the one mostly in charge of both kids while the other sits across the aisle or elsewhere. Even sections of stink, to be honest. If a family of 4 takes the 4 section with the parents as bookends, you can't communicate and pass things back and forth as well as you can when you're one behind the other. Back to the original question: No it's not rude for a couple to sit aisle-aisle. Just because they planned their seating before you doesn't make it rude. Different people have all kids of differing preferences, and someone acting on those preferences by reserving seats accordingly doesn't make them rude. Having sat 4 in a row, I don't like the aisle. I have no room to begin with.. and I don't end up being beside a rugrat, so that means no extra space for this 6'5" frame. I've got to try this row after row concept. And I love the window. So all you couples who want aisle.. have it. We'll take middle and window. I'll be sitting in the middle probably because the rugrats like the window. But in all honesty, I really love the window and wish I travelled window on all flights. Sitting aisle, I get bumped by every passenger and staff that passes by. I've got to keep my legs from entering the aisle otherwise it gets bumped. Plus I'm inconveniencing it seems adults who sit beside me.. Which all means, I love my children and would love to sit beside them.. for more room.:)
Originally Posted by Badenoch
(Post 21645939)
My wife and I both like aisle seats so if available we will book cross aisle. Until this thread I'd never considered it might offend someone. Having given the matter the consideration it deserves (not much) I've concluded that I don't give a damn if it does.
What I have learned in my comparatively brief time on this site is that the most insignificant matters will raise someone's hackles. Attempting to avoid every tiny transgression listed on FT would be impossible and actually not worth the bother. |
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