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learningtime Jan 6, 2010 11:05 am

Addiction
 
Not expecting this to be controversial at all. Wondering how you guys (and gals) deal with the addiction of this "hobby". I can't seem to take my mind away from all the mileage earning opportunities. Everything else seems to be taking a backseat. I was hoping 2010 would be a year focused on career progression (job search for a new/more exciting role) and even that seems to be taking a backseat :(

Not diminishing the importance of this "hobby", love it (my middle name should have been travel). Just wondering if I am alone in having to take a more proactive approach in balancing in my time :confused:

ssanto8403 Jan 6, 2010 11:26 am

I too am feeling addicted and am going to try and limit the time I devote to this 'hobby' to a couple hours a day this year. But getting free miles is a rush!!!

mikeef Jan 6, 2010 11:27 am

My personal theory is that everyone in our boat has a pretty bad case of OCD, and the addiction could be to anything (e.g., baseball cards, stamps, lingerie, etc.). The fact that it is frequent flyer points is incidental.

I just accept it and move on.

Mike

Kiwi Flyer Jan 6, 2010 11:38 am

Flyer Talk may be an odd choice for seeking help from this addiction :D

learningtime Jan 6, 2010 11:57 am


Originally Posted by Kiwi Flyer (Post 13125205)
Flyer Talk may be an odd choice for seeking help from this addiction :D

Well said my friend. But who else would understand it? I have a newborn at home and when I get done giving him a bottle in the middle of the night, I take a look at what's going on on FT :-) My hubby thinks I am looking for responses from recruiters in Asia (I do that too) but if he found out I was on FT, he would worry about me even more :p

Wiirachay Jan 6, 2010 12:13 pm

I can deal with everything - career, my running hobby, and my travel hobby (FT and finding good deals to fund my airfare) :D But note that my career is in the travel industry - and FT actually helped me get the knowledge that I use in my job.

But note that I'm single, and some of my friends worry about me. :rolleyes:

deltame Jan 6, 2010 12:46 pm


Originally Posted by learningtime (Post 13124963)
I was hoping 2010 would be a year focused on career progression (job search for a new/more exciting role) and even that seems to be taking a backseat :(

Well, first of all, I feel the same. However, on a good day, I tell myself that getting a more rewarding job/assignments and move up the ladder could lead to more $$ to finance MRs in style & comfort ;)

pinkcat Jan 6, 2010 1:49 pm

Didnt they already make a film about this?

The Mileage Millionaire Jan 6, 2010 2:59 pm


Originally Posted by mikeef (Post 13125122)
the addiction could be to anything (e.g., baseball cards, stamps, lingerie, etc)

or drugs, or alcohol, or gambling, or sex....

At least a a frequent flyer mile addcition isn't going to kill you or land you in prison.

It make cause you to go broke, however. :D

JerryFF Jan 6, 2010 3:44 pm

Ethics, addiction - maybe we need a forum called Dr Phil.:rolleyes:

GetawaysRus Jan 6, 2010 4:18 pm

Something is an unhealthy addiction only if my wife doesn't like it.

My wife enjoys those J seats and hotel stays that I can get with my FF miles and hotel points. (In fact, this is the only way that I can afford to treat her in the style to which she would like to become accustomed.)

Bottom line: this is a healthy obsession. Good for my marriage. ^

AAflyguy Jan 6, 2010 5:24 pm

My AA Reservations is now empty for the first time in over 6 months. I need my next fix!!!

angelsgirl85 Jan 6, 2010 7:35 pm

I think the addiction for me as a grad. student is also in part a need to procrastinate things like homework. Also, the digital receiver for my TV broke last month, so Flyertalk is my entertainment ;)

ac777 Jan 6, 2010 7:44 pm


Originally Posted by mikeef (Post 13125122)
My personal theory is that everyone in our boat has a pretty bad case of OCD, and the addiction could be to anything (e.g., baseball cards, stamps, lingerie, etc.). The fact that it is frequent flyer points is incidental.

I just accept it and move on.

Mike

It is called Dromomania!!!! Ulysses had it, Sinbad had it, we have it---so we are in very good company--historical and otherwise!! But idt does fit the definition of addiction:
Mileage seeking behaviour
Increased tolerance for MR
Will do all sorts of things to get the mileage
etc etc

jjwjjw Jan 6, 2010 8:10 pm

The wife sometimes thinks I'm crazy. Lots of credit cards, coins, etc. I don't hear nearly as much complaining now that she's discovered she enjoys first class and free hotel nights.:D


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