Considering my wife is still fully employed and in a demanding position we still manage to cruise once a year. That doesn’t put us in the “super elite” category with hundreds and hundreds of days but we’re probably close to or slightly over 400 days in 25 years. After being pretty loyal Holland America cruisers we transitioned to Silversea six years ago. In the vain of this thread that was driven by a degradation in the quality of food, associated dinner service, entertainment, and lastly the transition of HAL to bigger and bigger ships. I think today we would shy away from any cruise line or ship bigger than 800 +/-. Silversea food is good to excellent enough for us, service is normally very good, entertainment is surprisingly varied at least for us, and their biggest ships right now are 600 +/- passengers.