Originally Posted by 889
(Post 31081785)
Making a series of transactions or entries/departures below $10000 to avoid reporting is in itself a crime.
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Originally Posted by DaileyB
(Post 31260358)
Now one of my child's 40 year-old cousins emailed me saying they want to see my son's admission to college so that whoever is looking at this can determine that my son is incurring expenses. (In his case, $17,000 per year for college)
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Originally Posted by jiejie
(Post 31261302)
If it's the bank wanting to see proof that your son is incurring expenses, that's !@#$% BS and just tossing another obstacle to prevent the money from leaving. Or is it the cousin wanting to see this (can't tell from your phrasing, but none of his business either.) You shouldn't have to prove anything except that the son is the legitimate owner of the money now.
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Hi Gary,
Don't know in whose name the bank account is listed. Would presume it is a family member. Just arrived in China and have terrible internet access. |
It should be common in cities for students going to the USA for college to need over $10,000 for tuition, so showing the admission letter will make the bankers see this as belonging to one of their normal and permitted categories. |
Originally Posted by DaileyB
(Post 31279619)
Hi Gary,
Don't know in whose name the bank account is listed. Would presume it is a family member. Just arrived in China and have terrible internet access. |
Turns out that the date and time was messed up when I arrived to China. Corrected the date and time and things are working a lot better. Exp that's working pretty well but the ND I also bought is not connecting.
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Originally Posted by DaileyB
(Post 31279619)
Don't know in whose name the bank account is listed. Would presume it is a family member. Just arrived in China and have terrible internet access.
It is a more-than-you-think common problem - too many cooks. You really need to deal with the person who can actually access the account. |
OP good luck and let us know how you are making out.
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GaryK: "Not trying to trash any relative of your late wife, seriously you really need to determine who you should deal with.
It is a more-than-you-think common problem - too many cooks. You really need to deal with the person who can actually access the account." It was extremely generous of them to give the money to my son. They are simply not financially sophisticated. Will give them a lot of space. I know sophisticated Chinese investors in the US who owe me favors (as a lawyer, I am always being hit up for free advice.) and I will run this by my friends. Will mention that the person doing all of the heavy lifting in China (my cildrens' 40 yr-old cousin)was asking about how much cash could be taken out which was not something I wanted to hear. |
Originally Posted by DaileyB
(Post 31283338)
It was extremely generous of them to give the money to my son.
Otherwise, I call this entitlement. |
It is not my wife's estate. It is their money that I gave to them 10 years ago to compensate them for helping take care of my very young daughter after my wife died.
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Originally Posted by DaileyB
(Post 31283768)
It is not my wife's estate. It is their money that I gave to them 10 years ago to compensate them for helping take care of my very young daughter after my wife died.
At any rate, my guess is that the relatives consider it a return of your money, even if your interpretation is that you gave it to them so that = their money. They may be unsophisticated financially, but it seems that they are good honest people. |
Originally Posted by DaileyB
(Post 31283768)
It is not my wife's estate. It is their money that I gave to them 10 years ago to compensate them for helping take care of my very young daughter after my wife died.
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Jie Jie, you are right my post was misleading and wrong in one respect. I apologise, but you will see that my mistakes don't matter to the question asked.
My wife was dying of liver cancer and returned to China in 2008 to be treated by Chinese doctors for a hopelessly large tumor. My daughter was 2 years old and I was alone in Cincinnati with no relatives. All concerned felt that my wife's large family could better take care of my daughter. I gave my wife a check, she cashed it and gave a new check written by her to the family. I took care of my then 7 year old son. The money was obviously to compensate them for feeding and housing my daughter for about 3.5 years. I felt this long story was not relevant but by not telling it, I mislead some people. I had no idea they were going to return the money until several months ago. My daughter will be getting a large sum of money in the future which directly came from my wife, which partly explains the family's motivation. |
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