Wonderful. Thank you all so much for your continued advice.

I really don't want to grow any facial hair and not look like my passport photo. The customs and immigration folks here in America don't need much to send a person to secondary screening for the day.

I hadn't considered vauxhall and now I definitely will.

I'd like to think of myself as an extremely old twinky but am slowly coming to the realization that I'm more of a bear/daddy type now. Reality is a cruel mistress. Times were that I felt comfortable at any venue from the trendiest club to the darkest den. It's sad that I've lost my comfort level but on the other hand it's probably a good thing. I never wanted to be that guy who didn't know when to join the proper crowd, refusing to acknowledge that he wasn't 22 (or even 32) anymore.

Enough ranting, thanks for the advice, keep it coming