Originally Posted by
florin
It
may be a bit presumptuous to make assumptions about other relationships. Not everybody
has to give up their seat in F or J for their SO in order to avoid divorce or some other form of break up. Different people, different relationships, different expectations, etc.

No, we fight over which one gets to sit in Y while the other gets the J seat.
"You take it. No, you. No, you."
In the end, she's more stubborn, so I end up in J. Really.
I try to get 2 Ys or 2 Js whenever possible.