I'm sorry about your pain--that sounds rough.
But you'll find, if you read the forums long enough, that every request for help--and they come along more frequently than you'd imagine--is generally lambasted and then deleted. Airlines have very strict rules about selling miles which can get people barred from a particular carrier--thus the necessity of a very black-and-white TOS on the part of Flyertalk.

Also, and perhaps this is just a pet peeve of mine, if you've been a frequent reader of FT, why did you choose to post only when you needed help? There are plenty of opportunities to contribute...taking without adding to the discourse is not the community spirit which drives this forum.