I highly recommend Gendarmerie
http://www.thegendarmerie.com/

Article in Passport magazine:
http://www.thegendarmerie.com/About.php

Gay owned, mostly gay staff, and of course very gay friendly. Like being in someone's living room. Been there dozens of times. If you're there in the afternoon, wine or martinis are on the house (maybe in the morning too if you really need it). Free lunch on Saturdays.

Eduardo does great facials, waxing, and massage. Complimentary private steam bath. Josette for manicures and pedicures; she's in her 80s and a hoot; loves taking care of her "guys."

Howard

If you go, say Howard from San Diego and New York sent you.