No, I donīt find Dubai overrated. It isnīt cheap anymore as 5 years ago, but I feel always save. I am often there for business and it is a nice place. But if I am more interessted in the arabic culture and way to life, I would recommend to visit OMAN.
yeah I heard that about Oman..never been there though. The other place in the gulf that gets high ratings amongst travelers is Yemen. Anyone been there?