My condolences to the original poster on having lost a friend.
Originally Posted by
Jenbel
...After a discussion around this subject, I've now created a FT will - I've told some close friends (who are also on FT) what I want to be done on FT in the event that I die untimely. Now, it's up to them to decide if they want to follow my wishes, but I've also told them what I said to say about anyone who choses to ignore my wishes
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Close friends of mine (who also happen to be on FT) know exactly what I would, or wouldn't, want said. There's also something to be said for respecting an individual's privacy. @:-)