According to the rules, they should not let you in in MIA, nor LAX, nor HNL upon your first arrival. They should definitely let you in in HNL on your outbound 3 days later. All of that said, you should definitely try
(I kinda thought
chick was a dead giveaway...but maybe not.)
Cheers.
LOL I thought it was too but hey one never knows. I do have a "male" name