I am a girly girl but have must have something about me that gay men like as they always pick me out of a crowd and treat me like a princess. Got me free drinks, meals, great service at hotels, etc. I used to get into clubs in Boston while still underage and they always took care of me. One time recently I ordered a vodka and cran and the bartender said you look like a "top shelf girl" and was giving me free premium drinks all night long and despite the long lines, would just pour me and hand it to me without me asking! Don't know what the charm is but I sure like it!

One of my daughters has whatever "trait"" I have as well, but interestingly her identical twin does not!

Only one time I was treated rudely and I had to laugh about this one! I was the only woman at a table of 6 strapping young and hot men (some gay, some not) in New Haven. Waiter's service to me was horrid- he took the orders from all the men first and then served me last, failed to fill my water glass, etc. It was so blatant I almost complained, then I realized he must be jealous- he wanted to be where I was! I couldn't fault him on that one!