I called it off about 4 months ago. I'm working my a$$ off, but getting better pay and sleeping in my own bed. Ironically, Mrs BamaVol took a night job as soon as I changed jobs so I see less of her than ever.
It hasn't sunk home yet. I'm still top-statused with DL for another 6 weeks and Hilton for a year, but I haven't been in an airport for 4 months and only one hotel room.
It will hit me when I fly in March. Lowly silver, no Crown Room membership, unlikely u/g, regular security, etc. But, I'll get over it. Turns out there's more to life. Who knew?
Do it and don't look back.