And that really works? Wow...if I was a nasty burned out FA and someone said something like that to me (a veiled threat essentially..or a potential kudos on the other side) I think it would piss me off...like when sales people use your first name over in over because they are taught that in sales psych 101...it is clear what they are doing and it annoys the hell out of me.

But if it is working for you I am glad...we need every angle we can get to survive the circus.