thanks for everyone's help. i will talk to my sister in law and figure out what to do. we've got nothing to do that day since my brother will be running the marathon. going to one of the parks is a no-no. if we go without him, he'd throw a tantrum. i thought only my nephew would do that. guess not.

thanks for all your help mary. i've seen you on the boards and have helped other people immensely. i know how it is to help others on boards and many people feel thankful when helped.