<<< ...we don't enjoy you hanging out and asking the same dumb questions over and over again... >>
You are in the wrong line of work if you don't like to answer dumb questions.
<< ...i don't and i am sure that other fa don't come to your office and hang out while your trying to do your job and talk... >>
That's because you have to be invited to enter my office building. When I worked in the public realm, I had no problem with people visiting me, whether strangers or friends.
(blah blah blah about dating implications and safety excuses)