megatoplover, amanwana in Indonesia has a compulsory board charge of us$100 per person per day which includes all meals, soft drinks and laundry.
amansara in Cambodia has a us$85 per person per day charge which includes breakfast and lunch or dinner, beverages including house wines and two excursions per day with an english speaking guide and a remork.
I agree with amanjunkie, I have never found aman f & B expensive.
I'm sure the F & B manager at amanpulo would email you a sample menu if you ask.