Okay, I have tested and reviewed all the websites. It seems the choices are narrowed down to 3 with something positive about each.
Flickr- like it because can link to Yahoo email, so can upload pictures received here
SmugMug- looks professional galleries and like idea of own website
http://idealflyer.smugmug.com - only minus is the $39.99 annual fee
Shutterfly- price is right, quality may be not as nice but imagestation.com is currently allowing easy transfer of pictures/albums to them. Although I am told this is going to take 10 days.
Once I get the pictures uploaded and reorganized, then I will look more into the pay websites, but more consideration will be given to the unlimited storage sites though.
And the baddies-
Picassa Web loaded on my laptop about 6 months ago and I still seem to find some traces on it after supposedly successfully deleting it.