there are posters here who, in the OP's shoes, could probably get their last two stays completely comped.
that is my point.
i dont understand at all why the OP seems to feel like they are too demanding, or that anyone is accusing them of being that way.
there are other posters here who, in the OP's shoes, might be referring to both of these properties as "the worst hotels in the history of the world." THAT would be a little over the top IMHO.
IMHO if the OP wants to feel more confident in their expectations, hotel choice, and ability to receive compensation when things go wrong, they simply need to read this forum more.