I'm with Nick. This thread is a perfect example of why I'd never attempt to organize a "do".
Dealing with FTers that don't like the menu, don't like the venue, don't like the prices, don't want to pay for alcohol because they don't drink, don't have cash (or a CC), don't tip appropriately. Not to mention don't like the other FTers, or trying to keep away former FTers.
Geez.