I've done some searching on FT about TK and seating in J on the A340's, but couldn't find any prior info or rec's concerning having an infant in J.

Next spring the wife and I will have a 3.5 month old infant in tow on a JFK-IST flight in J and woud like any thoughts on seating that would:

1) allow us the most room to be comfortable and
2) to be as miminally invasive to others as possible.