Well Jamie, you don't say where you are from, so I can't rebutt.

However, yes they do have frequeNt flier miles in Kansas - how else do you expect us to get anywhere useful!

Also, as mentioned before, I did find an old article in Inside Flyer - and different airlines have different policies. A sampling:

AA: The rules of the court decree apply.
AmEx: Points are not property and cannot be assets in any type of settlement.
CO: Miles are not transferrable, and can only be distributed in a settlement by cashing in for awards.
Delta, NW: Transfer OK, with a court order.
United: Not transferrable as part of a domestic relations matter.