I tried twice:

1. Moved to Sarasota in 95 at the age of 36. Meet a girl(24) attending New College (USF) on a student visa. She is Trinidadian. It took a while,but she finally agreed to go out with me. For ~4-5 months we were inseparable. Then the graduation day came, and we both realized what is is necessary for us to be together. Her visa required her to go back to Trinidad after graduation. Marriage was one of the possibilities, moving to Trinidad was the other. I just lost my wife about a year earlier so I wasn't ready for marriage. Moving to Trinidad was out of a question for me. We e-mailed, called and she came back and stayed for about 2 weeks. She has family in Orlando and Ft. Myers so I got to meet everybody during the visit. We kept in touch for few more months but came to the realization that unless we marry or I move to Trinidad, we were fooling ourselves. She was/is one of the most wonderful girls I've ever met, but the timing was just not there.

2. Met a beautiful AA FA on a HNL-ORD flight. Not bragging, but she did introduce me to the mile high club.....
Her- Living on Pittsburgh with 2 teenage kids right next to her sisters house. Based out of ORD. Her favorite flights were HNL and LHR(which she gladly exchanged for HNL).
Me: Living in Sarasota, flying a great deal and not ready to move to Pittsburgh.
Result: We had some fun. I'll never forget when she e-mailed? couple of naked pictures from her Honolulu hotel through her mobile to my mobile, but at the end, it came down to the real world.
I wasn't about to move to Pittsburgh, and she did not want to uproot her teenage kids life to move to Florida, and besides ahe had her sister to depend on to take care of her kids when she was on a plane going somewhere every few days a week.

It didn't work for me. Both women were very beautiful, wonderful, funny, sexy, sensual and ...........