Originally Posted by
MegatopLover
BN, I think you're showing yourself as awfully judgmental. This really isn't the place for that, as newyorkgeorge suggested. There is a lot out there in this world to see. Sometimes people (even the self-same people) are looking to dive into the shirtless masses at a circuit party, and sometimes they're looking for a romantic dinner a few feet from thousands of fireflies over a Balinese ricefield. Sometimes people can pursue wildly diverse interests in the same trip, enjoying a first-growth bordeau one night at a top restaurant one night, and dancing 'til daylight at Alegria the next.
If a person has nothing to add besides disapproval, I suggest that issue be taken up in OMNI.
I totally, totally agree with this post. I do not understand my gay men cannot see the value of the "spice in life". They can't see the fun and beauty of dancing on end hours shirtless one weekend and then a quite "Blockbuster" weekend with someone special the next weekend, and the following weekend possibly a hiking trip in upstate New York. We unfortunately as gay men have been brainwashed into thinking that it is either the "party life" or nothing at all. Get real and learn what this entire world has to offer. You will be a better, more rounded and well adjusted, and more well liked person for it.