It would seem appropriate for the supervisor to give her a warning to calm down or she will be arrested and may end up in jail or fined and definately miss her flight. She should also be asked to apologize.

Then he/she should suggest the passenger go back to the front and have her husband paged. She could then try yelling at him to bring her id, so she could properly clear security.

This solution inconveniences only the id-less passenger and keeps the line moving for the others. This one is easy!!!!1111