Wild Mike's in Cincinnati. 3 Locations on the west side. Family owned. Ask for Stupid Hot (unless you're a wuss) and say hi to Junior for me, if you happen into the Harrison Avenue location.
Of course I'm probably biased because my best friend runs the joint and I practically lived on their wings in high school.
In Florida I've yet to find any
really good wings. The best around here in Sarasota are at two places: Wings n' Things (two locations: North Sarasota and Bradenton) and Gecko's (with 4 locations, two in Sarasota and two in Bradenton). Beef O'Brady's with locations all over central and west-central Florida is okay as well.