I totally agree. The stereotype of rude French people, particularly against tourists, is complete nonsense. I've found the French to be very friendly, helpful, and patient as I struggled with their language. Carry a phrase book and make an attempt to speak French. You'll often be surprised with an English response.

The other false stereotype I found was that Paris is expensive. To me everything seemed reasonable. Then again, I'm from San Francisco, so I might be used to expensive.

I enjoy just walking around the city and admiring the architecture and eating the food (particularly the bakeries). Be sure to check out the Notre Dame. Also, do a show like the Lido or Moulin Rouge (the MR is in a sketchy part of town, so take a cab if you're not on a tour).

Try also to break away for a half day and check out Versailles. There are many bus tours.

Have fun!