As noted in another thread, my friend and I are considering a trip to China this autumn (say November timeframe), and have been checking out the various package tours on the Internet.

For a couple reasons, we'd prefer to get our own hotels (use of awards in some cases, and getting creditable nights toward earning status in other cases). Is it worthwhile trying to "customize" a package tour by getting our own hotel rooms and using the tour company solely for the sightseeing and daytime meals (not breakfast)?

Or would it make more sense to travel by ourselves (including getting plane or rail tickets domestically) and hire day tours when we get to Shanghai, Xian and Beijing?

We're reasonably independent (although do not read nor speak Chinese), but she tends to feel more comfortable if we have something lined up in advance. It makes it a bit easier to relax and enjoy the trip.

Thanks for any advice or experiences you can provide.