For the dc area, the single events are best. the best list for these is
http://www.thelistareyouonit.com/
sometines this site has a thing or two
http://www.localwineevents.com/Washington-DC-Wine/
jaleo crystal city does a last thurs of month that is great.
for individual sites, check
dino
finn&porter(yes, finn and porter) some of the very best
san marco events for great venitian cooking, but medeocre wine
wine enthusiast
arrow wine
calvert woodley(high end) current offering:
http://www.wineaccess.com/store/calv...tter_id=106581
MacArthur liquor(hi end)
schneiders
planet wine(at least 3 tasting dinners a month)
I am not a fan of donna, or goldini. have been to many tastings at both, and the only decent one was cooked by jeff bubin before he opened viadelia.
we do not go out to individual tasting dinners, as these specials are such blowouts of special foods and wines. bit slow over holiday season, but will pick up soon