Sometimes.

I've spent pretty much the last 30 years being a jerk (I'm not suggesting that anyone here is one ) and have finally come to the conclusion that most things are relatively insignificant. I've found that I'm a much happier person (and the people around me) when I let these things go or deal with them after I've had time to think about them. This works for me. I apologize if I have come off as preaching or implying that others should take the same approach as I do.