Since I have to check luggage now to the US

I am back on the mine-is-never-the-first experience.
Was in F Yesterday in SFO, had a HON tag, but still my bag arrived as ~50 in a total mixture of priority and no priority luggage. It is just stupid, that airports unload (or departure load) works this way, because all F and BIZ pax were already through immigration standing in front of the carousel and then Y luggage arrived first (seat 56K probably, who needs another 30 mins through immigration).
Another question came back to me Yesterday. Why the hell do I have to stand almost at the carousel and have to put my face over the momements??? And can not wait let's say 2 or 3 feet away (I would be okay with 10 feet). Unlike others left and right of myself I kept 3 feet distance and was pushed away by a real thick guy and his lady to step in front of me.
When I asked him about this, he replied, that I wasn't close and so he thought I'm not waiting for luggage. Hähhh? Sure I always dream of stopping over at luggage delivery and have a short sleep.