MSnowdon: Hello from another HB resident. I would have said HWV hands down but since you've already been there you know what you are going to. Kauai is VERY mellow and I've never stayed at the property that is the new Hilton resort. If you just want to chill Kauai is awesome and Hanalei is the greatest little town but HWV is great for kids....Wish I could be more help. I am hoping someone has stayed in Kauai with kids and can help out. I'd love to know about Hilton Kauai for own purposes since I have a 7 year old and would like to know how it rates for kids.