I agree with crhptic
For living in an Urban area, I'd suggest the DC area. Something NW
around tenlytown or closer, but this will add significant commute
to your office in Laurel.

If you stay in/around Laurel, your daily commute is short, you have an
easy access to BWI and almost midway between
Baltimore and DC.

It all depends on your preference whether you want to live in a City
or be close to it for the weekends.