Originally Posted by lg10
It is my strong opinion that if you have a toddler and an infant, it is in
everyone's best interest to change your baby on your lap on a mat.
My wife changed our son's diaper whilst he was on her lap when he was 6 days old

I had never seen such a thing done before! It didn't squick me out, I was more shocked at the balance/control needed to do such a thing...I chalked it up as another woman-only skill